4.5 Years in San Diego

I've now lived longer in San Diego than I did in either Ann Arbor or Washington State. I'm pretty well settled in here, with a house, family and job I enjoy. I now own enough stuff that moving to a new place doesn't sound fun, and I've spent so much time getting our house the way we want it. Plus, it's hard to think of a better place to live.

There is a map of the USA that hangs above our table at home. It's a map I used to look at for hours at a time as a kid. A few years ago my wife took it from my parents house and had it framed for me as a gift. Sometimes I look at it and think of all the interesting places there must be to live, and how that might change depending on the phase of your life.

Most of the people I work with are in the Navy and move around every 2-3 years. It would be fun to live in Hawaii, Key West, Guam, Japan or Italy for a few years, but maybe not a place I'd want to homestead.

Growing up in the Midwest I always wanted to live by mountains and water. I always envied the small town that my Dad grew up in but I wouldn't want to be more than a few hours from a major city. Having an decent sized airport close-by seems important. It would be nice to live in a town with some charm, or better yet, a college town. I don't want to live in a place that gets too hot and humid, or that has a long and cold winter. It can't be too expensive either.

San Diego does pretty well by those standards, although the traffic and cost-of-living aren't great. My former town of Poulsbo, WA also checks many of the boxes, as does Ann Arbor. Davis, CA and San Luis Obispo, CA where my wife has lived are both pretty good too. It's likely that the perfect place isn't one of the places my wife or I have ever lived.

My parents have spent the last 10 years halfheartedly looking for a place to retire to. Their criteria is quite different from mine, but I think they enjoy checking different places out in their quest to find the right one. I think it's a fun thing to think about, even if you like where you live. I like looking at the map and thinking about it.

The John Beilein Era

I remember when Michigan fired Tommy Amaker. I was very conflicted. I thought the program's best hope was with signee Manny Harris, and without Amaker I wasn't sure he would follow through with his commitment. It was dire times, as Michigan was still lost in the woods following the crippling self imposed sanctions that Amaker had to coach through.

I also really respected Tommy Amaker. I liked his demeanor and ability to sell Michigan to recruits given our performance at the time. My respect for Tommy grew even more after he showed up at the U of M bus depot after the 2006-2007 season - at a time when he knew he wasn't going to be around long - and handed out Michigan Basketball T-shirts to the bus drivers for helping support the program throughout the year. (we often drove charters for the team).

When Beilein took over for the 2007-2008 season I was a Junior, and it was a rough season - most losses in Michigan history. When big-man Ekpe Udoh transferred after that first year, and other big-man Ron Coleman graduated, it looked like Michigan was in for years of rebuilding going into the 2008-2009 season. No one really thought much of the recruiting class of Ben Cronin, Stu Douglass and Zack Novak.

I didn't go to many basketball or hockey games my first two years at Michigan. I regret not finding Hockey sooner. The games at Yost were magical, and as a junior and senior I found out that I lived close enough to walk the half-block to my house and drink 3-5 beers during intermission and walk back in with the smokers. Basketball on the other hand wasn't as magical. Games my Sophomore and Junior year were dredges. Crisler Arena was a long walk, and the product was not fun. The one benefit was that unlike hockey, you could get into Basketball games with just your M-Card to some games and walk right down to the Maize Rage section. That's how little support there was.

The 2008-2009 basketball season was unforgettable. I remember when Michigan snuck into the tourney as a 10 seed for the first time in a decade. The sentiment from the students was "who knows when this will happen again?" The guys we would pre-game and go to the game with decided it we had to go to the tourney.

*I started to write about the unforgettable tourney experience, but then remembered that I had blogged about this 9 years ago. So I went back a read it, and it matched my recollection pretty well.

Hindsight is what it is, but a decade ago, I would never have imagined the heights that Michigan Basketball would reach over the next 10 years. I quickly came around enough this team that I was willing to put $40 on Michigan to in the National Championship in 2013 before the season started. That was still when Michigan wasn't expected to be a contender, and the odds reflected that. It'll be awhile before Michigan is back under 40:1 odds for a title.

I think it's about time I throw away that old Tommy Amaker shirt. I might need a new one.

Hello 31!

Yesterday I turned 31, and after a few calculations I realized that it's been 10 years since I turned 21. Then I went on a trip down memory lane, and remembered going out on my 21st birthday and people buying me terrible shots at Charley's. Then I remembered I blogged about it and I went back and re-read the blog about my 21st birthday, which was in my most prolific blogging era. Then I had to go to the Charley's website to look up what is in a Hairy Gorilla Fart.

But that aside, I've updated my annual birthday message chart.

- Overall my numbers aren't great this year. It's the lowest amount of FB happy birthday posts I've received since I've been keeping track (excluding the infamous 2011 birthday snafu). 27 posts is not good.
- I suspect part of the issue is that it was a Monday, and people are probably too busy being grump-a-dumps on Mondays to wish people happy birthday. Last year I teased adding the day of the week to the chart. It's here now!
- My total number of friends has dropped 5% form last year, but my total number of FB messages plummeted 25%. I don't think it's just the Monday effect. I anecdotally suspect people are using facebook less and less, and therefore my numbers will probably continue to decline in the future to the point where this post is just too sad to write.
- Keeping with the tradition of the past few years, I'll continue to tease a new feature for next year. Next year will be a TRENDLINE!!!!!! Will it me a moving average, linear, or logarithmic? Check back next year to find out!
- It was a good year for calls, I doubled my average of 2 per year. It was a bad year for Snapchat (0), Twitter (0 again), and other social media platforms (0).
- I have bittersweet news on the double Rachel Morgan front. I was very excited to get facebook posts from BOTH Rachel Morgans. BUT, in the past year both Rachel Morgans in my life have gotten married, so now neither one is a true Rachel Morgan, and the suspense of which Rachel Morgan wished me Happy Birthday is no more. But congrats to all the Rachel Morgans out there for finding your special someone.
- After five years of reliably being called a fartface, I was not called a fartface this year. It was a true birthday snub.
- In even more depressing news, after definitively calling out Ray Smith as a Happy Birthday fraudster and vowing not to mention him again, he doesn't wish me happy birthday. So has it been legit the whole time? Is he reading this? If so, I need to know the truth. It's killing me Ray!

Until next year!

More travelin'

Word up.

I'm back. Being blogger and rad dad at the same time is hard. So I had to give up being a blogger for a bit. 

Life's been swell. Got a new roof on the house, so that's good. Solid holidays and all that. 

In the meantime I did some more traveling. In December I went back down to the jungle of Peru for work. It was more magical the first time. 

People ride motorcycles through the flooded streets of Puerto Maldonado

Then last month I went to Singapore, Cambodia and Okinawa.

Singapore has cool beer, which is nice on a warm day.

Singapore totally lived up to the hype. Everything is pristine, no litter, amazing public transit. Even away from the touristy areas downtown it's still extremely clean and orderly. The food was really cheap, and it's nice that everything is in English. Unfortunately I missed meeting my sisters there by about a week. My buddy Ryan did a jaywalk!

Singapore also has cool architecture

Cambodia was a polar opposite. Anything goes, especially when it comes to traffic. Don't like traffic, just hop your motorcycle up on the sidewalk. Any place with $1 beers is an immediate like for me.

This guy in Cambodia really loves green onion

This guy was delivering ice from a big block in the back of his truck

New places are fun, but going back to Japan is nice since I feel like I've been there enough to know what to expect and how things work (except pachinko). I'm a bit of a pro at the sushi go-round. I even learned to skateboard while I was there!

On top of an old castle in Okinawa

Getting paid to travel is still awesome, but it's hard to be away from home for long. Until next time...

Travelin'

In my birthday post I hinted that there may be a few new countries to add to my map soon. Welp, a mere 3 months later, I not only have 2 new countries, I also have a principality and a new continent. Let's see how that happened.

Early in May my childhood friend Paul got married in Germany. He is most well known on this blog for the post about the time I threw the Tau Beta Pi elections, and also for living with me for a year. We decided to make a trip of it, and visited Denmark, Switzerland and the French Riviera as well. We brought along our baby, which was easier than we thought.

In Zurich

The Ice Bear having a snooze

This Wedding had Falconry. That's right... FALCONRY!

At the Stuttgart Spring Festival

There are some big-ass yachts in Monaco.

A week after getting back to the US, I was back on a plane to the eastern hemisphere. This time to Ghana for work. It was a short trip, so I had limited selfie time and only got one off. Since I was working I didn't get to do much exploring of Ghana, so perhaps I'll need to go back one day. But I've now been to 5 continents. I'm hoping to visit Australia next year, so perhaps I'll get to 6 soon.

Not sure why I wanted a selfie of this road.

The Dirty Thirty

Ol' man Russell here with another installment of my annual birthday post. It's been a good ride so far. Maybe time to look back at some accomplishments of the first 30 years of my existence.

In no particular order:

- Procreated

- Driven across the country

- Learned to ride a unicycle

- Built a chicken coop

- Drove a bus

- Graduated college

- Ate a spaghetti taco

- Watched all of The Wire

- Solved a Rubik's cube

- Sung a love song, like the way it's meant to be

- Shredded a Double Black Diamond (EXTREME)

- Went on the Price is Right with Bob Barker

- Slammed Poetry

- Fell in love

- Won a salsa contest

- BLOGGED FOR OVER A DECADE!

Alrighty now, enough of that.

In my first 30 years, I've also been a few places. Not probably as many as I would like, but I'm looking forward to going to some new spots soon.

Countries I've visited.

Counties I've visited.

OK. NOW THE MAIN ATTRACTION:

The annual chart of how many people wished me happy birthday. 

• The numbers: 36 facebook posts, 2 calls, 4 cards and 8 other electronic messages (texts slightly nudged out snapchats). Twitter remains a weak birthday message medium.
• My facebook posts are slowly declining. Maybe it's because I'm getting older and there are more facebook friends that I rarely interact with. But I did hope this would be a big year for me since I had a substantial birthday AND because it was on a Sunday which is a day that I assume people spend more time on facebook than other days of the week. Maybe in the future I'll track the day of the week as a data point.
• As promised a year ago, the feature you've all been waiting for is finally here. The facebook friend trend line. It's so scale-skewed! But I have the same number of facebook friends as last year.
• Speaking of facebook friends, I'm considering purging some of my friends. There are considerable numbers of facebook friends who I have no idea who they are, or why we became friends in the first place. I've been waiting until after this data pull to do it, but next year I might have 100 less friends. But I'm planning to not delete anyone who wishes me happy birthday to hopefully lose the dead weight and improve my ratio.  I recently did the same thing with my phone contacts. It was a sober reality that I'll likely never call/text the 20 girls I had crushes on in High School ever again.
• While my overall numbers have remained in the 50s, I'm pretty sure the number of people that actually wished my happy birthday is much lower. I had several people call or text and then also throw something on facebook just to get their stats in. Pathetic. It really calls into question the meticulous data I've been gathering.
• Ray = Total Fraudster. He's auto-happy birthdaying for sure. There's no doubt anymore. I'm not even going to mention him next year.
• It's the 5th annual "Happy Birthday Fartface" post. So that's still happening.
• No double Rachel Morgan this year again :(
• Going international. I got facebook posts from both Africa and Australia. I'm branching out worldwide!
• People often ask how to get mentioned in this post (Forno). There you go.

Eggs and Other Updates

Hello friends!

In my last post I noted that it would be a few months before our chickens started laying eggs. Well today we got our first egg. It was from Rose.  It is hopefully the first of many. The chickens have gotten quite big!

Rose up front. They think I'm their rooster.

So I'll lead with the good news, but here's a brief life synopsis since my last post. I'll hit the highlight of each month.

The firefighters had to put it out with my garden hose.

In June my beloved 1984 CJ7 Jeep caught fire. It was a total loss. But insurance did pay me more for my claim than I paid for the jeep. But it did not cover all the hours of labor and parts that I put into that wonderful vehicle. It's probably for the best though because Carly didn't like it and now we have more room in the garage. 

The Alamo

I also brought Carly along to a work trip in San Antonio.  That's a city that you can do everything there is to do in about 18 hours.

Tubing in Virginia near the West Virginia border

In July all of my cousins on my dad's side met up at my cousins house near Blacksburg, VA for a cousins weekend. We went to a hippie/folk festival called Floydfest. We also went tubing on the rivers of Appalacia. Early in July I went to Denver for a work conference, and really had a good time in Denver.

Friends from Seattle visiting San Diego

In August I took a work trip to Guam. In terms of minor US possessions, Guam has to be one of my favorites. It's like a more relaxed Hawaii. So many beaches and unmolested nature. I would have no problem living there even if it meant the main store I shop at is K-Mart.

At Andersen AFB on Guam

September also took me to a far-off locale. This time it was a week in Peru, again for work. I spent most of the time in Lima, but also went to Puerto Maldonado along with Iquitos.

On the Amazon

On the way back I stopped in Ann Arbor to hang out with the collegiate crew. It's too bad I was deathly ill the whole time.

It's always good to be back in the big house

Starting in October I scaled back the travel. The best think we did in October was take a little weekend trip to Palm Springs. Carly's boss warned us it is a gay Mecca, and he wasn't wrong. We had a delightfully relaxing time and at some food that a couple on the street recommended as being "super yummy!". It was.

Drinking a poolside beer in Palm Springs

The other excitement from October was finally getting rid of the Barbie collection (and other dolls) that Carly inherited. We decided to donate them to Toy-For-Tots. Hopefully the kids who get them won't be too confused as to why they are getting a 90210 Brenda and Dylan doll.

The Barbie Collection

We'll that's all the big news. Although in a week or so, I might have another small post announcing something. We'll see...